If you have never had a tantric massage before, you are in for a real treat. But if you’re new to the pleasures of erotic massage you may be unsure what you’re in for. We get a lot of questions about tantric massage and what it entails. One of the most commonly asked questions is: Does all tantric massage include the lingam (the male member)? Do you think you know the answer? This article reveals all the details about tantric massage and whether or not the lingam comes into play when you have a professional tantric massage. 

The short answer to this question is … sometimes. That may seem like a non-answer but the truth is that it depends on the client, the masseuse and the agency. Erotic massage is popular in part because of the ‘happy ending’ option, which is obviously achieved through lingam massageDepending on where you are in the world, erotic massage can be a serious offence for both masseuse and client. Luckily, here in London, it is a-okay to partake in and all you have to do is face the dizzying task of choosing a masseuse from our bevvy of beauties. 

In the meantime, let’s look at tantra in broad terms and then unpack the process of a lingam massage.

What is a lingam, exactly?

The word lingam is Sanskrit and it refers/translates to maleness, but more specifically the male member.  Stimulating the lingam through lingam massage is a common step in a tantric massage. Tantra is an age-old discipline that has roots in ancient Hindu and Buddhist concepts. The word ‘tantra’ is also Sanskrit and roughly translates to “woven web”, referencing the interconnectedness of  the human mind, body, and spirit, as well as the interconnectedness of all things in the universe. 

What is tantra? 

Tantra is an ancient system of values and beliefs that originated in India and Tibet. It’s focus is on putting the mind, body, and soul in alignment and achieving balance through clean living, exercise and embracing the human urge for eroticism. 

Tantric massage has become incredibly popular in the last decade, thanks to the same neo-hippie movements that brought yoga and meditation to the forefront in the western world. Whether you see it as appreciation or appropriation, the ancient way of Tantra has put down roots in British soil in a serious way. It may have begun twelve hundred years ago, across the globe in India, but that doesn’t mean tantra is out of place in our modern world. Often when we hear the word ‘tantra’ we immediately think of yoga or sex. These sub-topics within tantra are legitimate but they are not the full extent of what tantra can be. 

Lingam-specific massage is still a massage

Lingam massage is one of our most  popular types of massage since most men are very keen to have their lingam touched and most of our clients opt for a ‘happy ending’. But when you see professionals like the tantric goddesses of Secret Tantric, who have a good grasp of physiology and anatomy, you are getting so much more than a hand job. Many of our ‘competitors’ offer minimal training and education to their masseuses because it takes time and money. We are happy to invest in our masseuses because we make careful decisions about who is Secret Tantric material. We must be discerning in our selection because we know how discerning our clients can be! It is our honour and privilege to provide our clients the best of both worlds: an incredible massage and an unforgettable erotic experience.

What to expect of your session

  • uninterrupted time with your masseuse
  • your masseuse’s full attention
  • top quality massage materials like oils, candles and music to set the mood
  • complete focus and impeccable communication during your massage

You will be welcomed into her luxury apartment and you and your masseuse will have a brief consultation – a brief discussion of what your needs, desires, and boundaries are for your massage. Once you and your masseuse have established the baseline for what your session will be like, then the fun can begin. You will be asked to take a mandatory shower before your session begins. This is regardless of your hygiene or whether you have showered just before your session. Once you are squeaky clean your massage will start!  

The best hour of your life, no doubt

All of our sessions are a minimum of 60 minutes, but generally more time is available. If you think that your massage may go longer than 60 Minutes or you are sure that you would like to spend more time with your masseuse, please share that on the initial booking phone call. 

No prep needed

Don’t worry, there is nothing you need to do specifically to prepare for a tantric massage, even if you will be opting for some lingam action. Additionally, we are often asked if tantric massage requires any particular physical state of fitness or ability, but that is not an issue either. Tantric massage is appropriate for all sorts of people with all sorts of bodies, levels of fitness, and abilities. Our masseuses can accommodate and support most clients with physical disabilities and all massage locations are fully accessible. Likewise, tell your masseuse before your massage begins if you have any issues with your breathing, your heart or circulation, or range of motion. Give them all the information they need about your body to help your session be the best that it can be. Help them help you feel incredible!

Etiquette for tantric and lingam massage

We ask that our masseuses boundaries and limits be respected at all times. We have a zero-tolerance policy on poor behaviour and inappropriate touching. Just like any other scenario ‘no always means no’ and consent needs to be mutual, enthusiastic, and ongoing. Appropriate behaviour will be noticed and appreciated. Your role in a massage is to be present and enjoy yourself. That’s it!

Why go tantric?

Luckily tantric massage requires very little of its practitioners, other than focus, intention, and an openness to new experiences. A gifted tantric worker will take you on a journey of sensual delight. This journey will be unlike anything you have experienced before. The body, mind and soul can all be healed through tantric massage. Sure, it has the ability to relieve physical discomfort and strain, but if your physical body is tired and aching, almost any old massage will help. But if your needs are greater, or deeper, tantric massage can be the better solution because it gives you muscle therapy while inspiring and evoking sensual and erotic sensations. Because tantric massage awakens more than just your body, it has overall wellness effects that can’t be achieved by other methods of massage.

Lingam Massage: the Massage with Benefits

Did you know that laying back and allowing yourself to be the sole recipient of pleasure can help you be a better giver of pleasure? It’s true! It may sound counter-intuitive, but engaging with your own eroticism and pleasure will make you a more articulate and considerate lover. Once you experience the pure pleasure of tantric massage, you will be more empathetic to your partners in bed. Massage is an intense and sensual way to unwind and escape the pressures of real life. Behind closed doors with your Secret Tantric masseuse you can allow yourself to be truly spoiled. Bask in her beauty and enjoy how thorough and sensual her touch is. 

Lingam massage is a whole other level of pleasure

Chances are that a lingam massage will take you beyond anything you have likely experienced. The tantric experience is fairly all-encompassing and holistic. It focuses on breathing and slowly re-connecting the mind and body to restore harmony and a sense of wholeness. Though the massage itself is full body, special attention is paid to the lingam, resulting in a truly seismic finale. Your masseuse will make the most of the luxurious warm oils at her disposal and she will use more than just her hands to help you to the finish line. It’s important to specify that the happy endings sanctified by Secret Tantric are manual stimulation only, not oral or penetration, but what two consenting adults get up to is up to them! 

Feels good, good for you 

It’s true, not all tantric massages include lingam massage. But many do! Those who partake in this ancient and sensual ritual deeply enjoy it. For many, tantric touch is a path towards emotional healing. This is particularly true if their personal history includes trauma or anxiety around sex and sexuality. Emotional and mental pain such as shame, anger, and fear take us further away from our centre. They put us out of balance and into disharmony. Tantra helps its practitioners tap into their sensuality and experience the depth and possibility of their own eroticism. The lingam massage is a very direct path to pleasure. It can also help with issues like erectile dysfunction, lack of confidence, and other mental hang ups around sexual performance. 

It’s the obvious choice

Our girls are the most beautiful in London, if not the world, and we are absolutely confident that every session you booked with us will be better than the last. No matter your reasons for booking with us, we will always leave you satisfied, to whatever degree you desire. Regardless of the style of massage that you choose, or the masseuse that you select, we know that the time you spend with us will be of high value and will leave you feeling restored and uplifted! Call us now and book straight away!

What are you waiting for?

Erotic massage is a luxury, but also an important part of your sexual health maintenance. Whether you are looking to relax or you are touch-starved from being single, we can meet your every need.

Whether you are looking for a lingam massage or simply a sensual full body erotic massage, we have what you want. Our girls are the most beautiful in London, if not the world! We are absolutely confident that every session you booked with us will be better than the last. No matter your reasons for booking with us, we will always leave you satisfied, to whatever degree you desire.

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