Excited but overwhelmed about tantric massage? We understand that tantra is a topic that not everyone is familiar with. Likewise, tantric massage is not an activity that everyone has tried. At Secret Tantric we want you to feel comfortable and confident about your tantric experience so we have compiled our answers to the most common FAQs about tantric massage, for your convenience. 

What is tantric massage?

Tantric massage is a sensual full body massage style that focuses on deep relaxation and creating a solid mind/body connection through guided rhythmic breathing. Not only is it a fabulous physical massage, tantric massage is also a sexy, sensual experience. You will enjoy the sensual ministrations of your beautiful female masseuse as she thoroughly massages you from head to toe, wearing little to nothing at all. 

What is tantra?

Based in Buddhism and Hinduism, tantra is an ancient spiritual practice from India that is still practiced today, all over the world.  Historically, the term ‘tantra’ refers to sacred texts regarding physical, mental and emotional wellness, spiritual values, sexual expression, and the connection between the human and the divine. Therefore, tantric practice is the intentional lived experience as decreed by these texts. Tantric massage is just one facet of tantric practice, which celebrates the body and all it does for us, including pleasure.

What are the benefits of tantric massage?

Tantric massage can provide support or improvement in the following areas:

  • Stress management
  • Improving mental focus
  • Sleep issues, including insomnia
  • Erectile dysfunction (ED)
  • Premature ejaculation
  • Healing after sexual trauma
  • Jumpstart a sluggish libido
  • Relaxation
  • Self awareness

Who are tantric massages appropriate for?

Adults of any gender who want to have a relaxing, sensually dynamic massage experience.

What will the gender of my masseuse be?

All of our masseuses are beautiful women. Our roster is very international, catering to all tastes.  

How old are the masseuses?

All of our masseuses are legal adults. Most of them are in their 20s, with a few in their early thirties. Many of the girls have their ages listed on their portfolio page. 

Do the girls really look like their pictures?

Absolutely! We only work with the best and the brightest masseuses on the London massage scene. Each and every one of them looks like her images in person. We promise, we do not catfish or bait and switch!

How does one prepare for a tantric massage?

Luckily, preparing for a tantric massage is not difficult. As long as you are excited and enthusiastic about the experience you’ll have a great time. 

Tips to be as comfortable as possible:

  • Be well rested, if you can
  • Have eaten a light lunch with both carbs and protein a couple of hours before your session
  • Stretch and drink a good amount of water so you are hydrated
  • Avoid bathroom breaks by going before your session starts
  • If prostate massage is on the docket, be sure to have evacuated your bowels at least 2 hours before your session.

Are the masseuses trained or are they winging it?

Proper tantric massage actually involves massage. At lesser agencies, massage sometimes comes in the form of a hasty rubdown or a hand job. At Secret Tantric, we understand the value of a proper full body massage. Because our masseuses have technical skills in the art of massage, the way that they handle your body will stimulate your muscles, increase your circulation and improve oxygenation throughout your system. When we improve circulation and oxygenation, we experience a euphoric sense of relaxation. This is an ideal state for sensual massage. Without enough stimulation, it’s not a proper massage!

What will the masseuse be wearing?

Depending on the masseuse, and depending on the style of massage, your masseuse will be in lingerie, topless in a thong, or nude.

What should I wear, or do I have to be naked?

We recommend you wear whatever makes you feel comfortable and confident to your appointment. During the massage you are welcome to strip down to your underpants, though most of our clients go nude. 

Does tantric massage include genital contact?

Your masseuse will not ignore your erogenous zones, though they will not be the sole focus of the massage. Depending on your goals and ideals for your session, your masseuse may or may not linger. 

Is it a ‘happy ending’ massage? Am I allowed to orgasm?

Happily, tantric massage, including the happy ending, is legitimate and above board in London. The particulars of your massage session will be based on the boundaries and limitations of both you and your masseuse. All sessions begin with a brief consultation to decide on the particulars. 

Will the masseuse orgasm?

That is not within their job description. 

Is there oral or penetrative sex involved?

Our service only extends as far as the massage. What happens between consenting adults after the massage is complete is beyond the jurisdiction of Secret Tantric. Our masseuses set their own limits and as a client you are expected to respect them. 

How intimate will it get?

Every session begins with a brief but mandatory consultation. This allows for both parties to understand the desires, limitations, and expectations for the session. It also gives you a few moments to chat and warm up with each other before jumping into the good stuff. Remember: While tantric massage is transactional in nature, it is still  dependent upon the safety and bodily autonomy of both parties. Neither of you is expected, nor required, to do anything you do not wish to. 

Can I give my masseuse a massage?

You would have to ask her, and we remind you that her consent and limitations must be respected. 

Do you do couples’ massages?

The Secret Tantric couples massage is a true indulgence. You will have the dedicated attention of one of our beautiful masseuses who will  help you focus on your partner, help your partner focus on you, and focus all of her attention on both of you. No one gets left behind in our sensual couples massage! Getting a massage together or taking a massage class together can be a great way to spice up date-night or celebrate an anniversary.

Is Secret Tantric only in London?

We are everywhere you need us to be, within the city of London. Most massage locations are very near to Tube stations, and all of them are in safe and well maintained areas. In fact, most of our locations are in the posh postcodes! 

Do you offer an incall or outcall massage?

We can usually connect you with a masseuse the same day or next day, and all of our masseuses are easy to get to in London. 

  • Our masseuses primarily due in-call massage, meaning that you travel to your masseuse. They provide their services from their personal apartments, all of which are extremely high-end and well equipped. We want you to have a luxury experience from end to end so you will always feel like a five-star VIP with our masseuses.  
  • In some cases we provide outcall massage, where your masseuse comes to you. This is available at specific exclusive London hotels. 
  • At home, in-residence visits are only available to repeat clients who are a part of our VIP program.

Where is your massage studio located?

We do not have a central studio. Our business model focuses on incall massage for a few reasons, all of which benefit you, the customer.

  •  Masseuses spend less time between appointments meaning they are more likely to be able to see you on short notice
  •  Preparation is simpler and easier when the masseuse works out of her home
  •  With a private residence there’s no nosy desk clerk or curious bellboys. Your privacy and discretion are assured, as well as being within your control, when you travel to your masseuse.

How will I know where to go for an incall massage?

When we confirm your appointment we will disclose the location of your masseuse. 

How long does a tantric massage session last?

All our sessions are at least 60 mins in length. Sessions can be longer, based on your masseuse’s availability.

What will the massage space be like?

Your massage will take place in the upscale apartment of your masseuse. The massage space will be clean, comfortable, and well appointed. We are a luxury, top-tier service, and it shows. 

Can I shower after the massage?


Do I have to tip my masseuse?

Tips are not expected but always appreciated. 

How do I book myself a tantric massage?

Whether you are looking for an exotic massage for you and a partner for yourself, we have what you want. Our girls are the most beautiful in London, if not the world! We are absolutely confident that every session you booked with us will be better than the last. No matter your reasons for booking with us, we will always leave you satisfied, to whatever degree you desire.

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