The adult entertainment industry is full of terminology. If you are not well versed in these terms, they can be overwhelming or confusing. Take, for example, exotic massage and adult massage. Do you know the difference between them? Do you know if there is a difference between them?  Let’s have a look at some of these words and how they’re used in the industry. 

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Every corner of society and culture has its own lexicon, its own terminology that defines it and expresses it. The adult industry is no different. When it comes to the erotic massage world, there are more terms then maybe necessary oh, so knowing what you’re looking for and knowing what’s on offer before you set an appointment is important. Luckily here at Secret Tantric we love answering your questions when you call in to make a booking. We will happily make sure that you understand all the nuances of the massage that you are booking. There’s no such thing as a silly question and we are always excited to make the world of massage more clear and more accessible for everyone. 

It’s a brave new world! Welcome!

There’s no such thing as a silly  question.  We have been asked every  imaginable question possible about this industry, our masseuses, the services they provide, and everything else under the sun. We know that this is a space that you may not be fully familiar with or fully comfortable with and that’s okay. Part of what we do here at Secret Tantric is provide learning and clarity around the  fundamental  human experience of sensual and erotic massage.

The adult massage industry is finally becoming mainstream. This means that many people are curious but unsure of the terminology or what to expect from an appointment. Feeling prepared helps with confidence and nervousness so we want to help you feel ready with sound expectations. We get lots of questions about the appointments and how to navigate them and we are happy to answer each and every one. 


Adult massage is sensual or erotic massage (and all the massage styles that fall into those categories) intended for adults (ages vary by jurisdiction)

Exotic massage is an umbrella term for non-western erotic massage styles that may or may not end in climax. 

Exotic massage describes a massage experience that is ‘different or foreign’. Under the umbrella of exotic massage there are many forms of massage that most people are familiar with, ie: tantric, nuru, etc. Just as the modes of massage are different from east to west, so are the attitudes about massage. British culture tends to regard the adult industry as either inappropriate and taboo, or simply entertainment with no particular value beyond titillation.

Grown ups only

All exotic massages are adult, but not all adult massages are exotic. In many parts of the world the terms ‘adult’ and ‘exotic are used to denote XXX massage that comes with a “happy ending”. Although the term has “Adult” is broad and it has become a catch-all for erotic massage experiences, the descriptor ‘Adult’ is not wrong. If you are seeking a massage experience that is sensual, sexual, or may end with climax, you are looking for an adult massag, meaning it is intended for folks above the age of majority. Unlike a more medically necessary or non-erotic massage, adult massage always has a nude element to it, if not more. 

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Come see us and have some fun

Exotic massage is the most relaxing, sexy experience you can have. Our masseuses are incredibly skilled both in the muscular and relaxation elements of massage, as well the skills to carry you through a session with comfort and ease. No matter what kind of exotic massage experience you choose, your mind will be blown by these beautiful women and their talented hands. 

What to expect from an adult exotic massage

Whether you are seeking an intimate tantric massage, a slick and slippery Japanese Nuru Massage, or any other form of exotic massage, Secret Tantric does it all. And we do it really well. The process of booking an appointment at Secret Tantric is simple. Simply have a look at the rest of the website and find a masseuse and location that you are interested in. Be sure to read up on what kinds of massage she provides and what her rates are. All of our masseuses set their own rates as well as their own hours of operation, so this will change from girl to girl, please pay attention when researching your appointment.

In-call massage is where it’s at

We can usually connect you with a masseuse the same day or next day, and all of our masseuses are easy to get to in London. Our masseuses primarily due in-call massage, meaning that you travel to your masseuse. They provide their services from their personal Apartments, all of which are extremely high-end and well equipped. We want you to have a luxury experience from end to end so you will always feel like a five-star VIP with our masseuses.  In some cases we provide out-call massage where your masseuse comes to you. This is available at specific exclusive London hotels. An at home, in-residence visit is only available to repeat clients who are a part of our VIP program.

Benefits of in-call massage

Our business model focuses on in-call massage for a few reasons, all of which benefit you, the customer.

  •  Masseuses spend less time between appointments meaning they are more likely to be able to see you on short notice
  •  Preparation is simpler and easier when the masseuse works out of her home
  •  With a private residence there’s no nosy desk clerk or curious bellboys. Your privacy and discretion are assured, as well as being within your control, when you travel to your masseuse. masseuse.

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Trust us we are professionals

With a professional service like Secret Tantric, as both a masseuse or as a client, you know the experience will be professional from beginning to end. How do you know? It’s our promise to you! When you first call in about your appointment you will have all of your questions answered and your needs will be accommodated as soon as is effectively possible.

We empower our masseuses

Our masseuses set their own limitations and decide which massages they provide and how in-depth the erotic massage experience with them will be. Because of this, it’s important that you make sure that your expectations and desires are aligned. We have specifically set up our website in such a way that our clients have this information up front so you can make reasonable decisions on who you see for what. This means that at different times for different sessions you may need to see different girls because not everyone has the skill set for every type of massage, nor does everyone participate in all forms of massage that Secret Tantric offers.

Did You Know? Consent is required! It is essential that the boundaries of both you and your masseuse be understood, respected, and upheld. 

Get ready for pleasure

It’s impossible to expect that our clients show up completely relaxed and ready to go. Part of why you are in our skilled hands is to feel that relaxation and for you to leave the session feeling better than when you arrived. Here are the simplest and best tips we can offer:

  • Be as rested as you can be
  • Eat a light lunch with both carbs and protein shortly before your session
  • Stretch your body and make note of any sore or tight spots that will require extra attention
  • Drink a good amount of water so you are hydrated and your body feels adequately fuelled 
  • Use the loo beforehand so you don’t have to interrupt the session. If your session will include any prostate play, be sure that you have evacuated your bowels an hour or two before your session begins in order to avoid any unsightly messes

It’s the obvious choice

Our girls are the most beautiful in London, if not the world, and we are absolutely confident that every session you booked with us will be better than the last. No matter your reasons for booking with us, we will always leave you satisfied, to whatever degree you desire. Regardless of the style of massage that you choose, or the masseuse that you select, we know that the time you spend with us will be of high value and will leave you feeling restored and uplifted! Call us now and book straight away!

What are you waiting for?

Erotic massage is a luxury, but also an important part of your sexual health maintenance. Whether you are looking for something to relax your muscles or you are touch-starved from being single, we can meet your every need.

Whether you are looking for an exotic massage or simply a sensual full body erotic massage, we have what you want. Our girls are the most beautiful in London, if not the world! We are absolutely confident that every session you booked with us will be better than the last. No matter your reasons for booking with us, we will always leave you satisfied, to whatever degree you desire.

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