Do you know the difference between erotic and exotic massage? Erotic and exotic are two terms in the adult massage industry that are  frequently misused. Many people use them interchangeably but there are actually subtle and distinct differences between an erotic massage and an exotic massage. This article focuses on the similarities and differences between erotic massage and adult massage, the two primary types of massage here at Secret Tantric. We want to arm you with information for your decision making process before you book with us. Read on to learn the difference between erotic and exotic massage! 

The very fact that you’re reading this blog post confirms that you have a vested interest in erotic and or exotic massage. Hurray! Here at Secret Tantric we know a thing or two about the sensual Arts and we want to ensure that our clients are as well-versed as possible so that they can get the most from their massage sessions. Every industry has its own terminology and its own language and the adult massage Community is no different.  We do our best to make sure our website is clear and concise and we put a great deal of effort into conversations with clients in advance of their appointments. We want to be sure that you have articulated your needs and desires and that we have set appropriate expectations for your experience. 

Similar but not the same

We want newcomers and repeat clients to feel equally comfortable and informed by our website and staff. It’s important to us that our clients get what they want and need from their sessions.  it is also equally as important that masseuses and clients are on the same page before the massage begins. One general area that causes some confusion is the distinction between erotic and exotic. Most people outside of the industry do not know the difference between erotic massage and exotic massage. Many people use these terms interchangeably, but within the massage world there is a very specific distinction between erotic and exotic.  

Erotic massage refers to any form of sensual or sexual massage, particularly those focused on the achievement of climax.

Exotic massage is an umbrella term for non-western erotic massage styles that may or may not end in climax. 

All exotic massages are erotic, but not all erotic massage are exotic

In many parts of the world the terms ‘erotic’ and ‘exotic are used to denote XXX massages. You know the kind, the ones that come with a “happy ending”. Like any specialty industry, it’s important to know a little bit about the company you are working with, and what exactly their services include. Although the term has become a bit of a scapegoat for any kind of sensual massage experience, the descriptor ‘erotic’ is not wrong. If you are seeking a massage experience that is sensual, sexual, or may end with climax, you are looking for an erotic massage. If you’re looking for a more specific massage within the erotic arena (like tantric or nuru), you are probably looking for an exotic massage, a sub category of massage that has a different flair and flavour. 

Exotification at its finest

Exotic massage describes a massage experience that is ‘different or foreign’. Under the umbrella of exotic massage there are many forms of massage that most people are familiar with, ie: tantric, nuru, etc. Adult massage has been moralized in western culture making the taboo of it a barrier for many people. Just as the modes of massage are different from east to west, so are the attitudes about massage. British culture tends to regard the adult industry as either inappropriate and taboo, or simply entertainment with no particular value beyond titillation.

Sexy, sexy therapy

Erotic massage can be both therapeutic as well as sensual. It can address issues of the mind or the body and it has the capacity to heal. People seek erotic and exotic massage for numerous reasons. Many just want a fun way to feel sexy. Others are on a journey to get better in touch with their bodies and their feelings. There are also subsets of clients who are looking for no strings attached touch and intimacy.  Many of our clients have not had contact in a while making us a practical and pleasurable way to achieve intimacy. The semantic distinction between exotic and erotic massage, however similar, provides clarity. 

What will my erotic and exotic massages be like?

A Secret Tantric massage is administered by a thoroughly trained and incredibly sexy masseuse. Your masseuse will use her hands as well  as other parts of her nude or scantily clad body to conduct the massage. As you can imagine, this is a very sensual and sexual experience that is stimulating to the client both in the visual and tactile senses. 

The ladies love us too

Many female clients are looking to expand their sexuality and put them back in touch with their bodies. Our masseuses are masters of the Yoni massage, an ancient tantric practice. It enlivens and stimulates the vagina and vulva, allowing for more sexual pleasure and heightened sexual response. Whether they are  partnered or single, our clients keep coming back because of the magical hands that each of our masseuses have. We go above and beyond in every possible category. Our roster of masseuses is unparalleled. All of our massage specialists learn the social historical and physical properties and parameters of erotic and exotic massage. We even use quality massage oils that are guaranteed to be non-comedogenic and good for the skin. 

What are you waiting for?

Erotic massage is a luxury, but also an important part of your sexual health maintenance. Whether you are looking for something to relax your muscles or you are touch-starved from being single, we can meet your every need.

Whether you are looking for an exotic massage or simply a sensual full body erotic massage, we have what you want. Our girls are the most beautiful in London, if not the world! We are absolutely confident that every session you booked with us will be better than the last. No matter your reasons for booking with us, we will always leave you satisfied, to whatever degree you desire.

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