When a romantic relationship grows stale, it can be hard on both partners. Keeping a relationship feeling fresh and exciting takes a lot of work that not everyone is prepared to do. If you have noticed that your relationship is lacklustre, it may be time to try something new and adventurous with your partner.  Nothing ignites the Flames of Love More than an erotic massage.  If you have never given or received an erotic massage, fear not.  We have all the information you need for a sexy, slippery Japanese Nuru Massage. What are you waiting for?

Touch is such a significant human need; it’s no wonder that the erotic massage industry is growing exponentially! With our top tips for Nuru Massage at home, a little bit of planning and forethought, you and your partner can share an erotic massage. No single act or experience can repair a lapse in intimacy. However, learning about Japanese Nuru Massage together and trying it out may be exactly what the two of you need.  Here at Secret Tantra, we want you to have a great sex life, and we want you to be an excellent lover. We know the value of touch and sensuality, and we understand that intimate relationships can starve and die without them.  Let us help you get back on track with some easy steps to get you and your partner back in sync and feeling sexy again.

What is Japanese Nuru Massage?

The Nuru Massage originated in Kawasaki, Japan, and is a favourite worldwide. “Nuru”  is a Japanese verb meaning to paint or to lacquer.  This refers to an essential part of the massage: Nuru gel. Nuru Massage is a form of body-on-body, full-contact massage that is elevated by using a particularly slippery Botanical gel.  This lotion is made from Brown Nori seaweed, the same kind of seaweed that you have in sushi preparations. This traditional lubricant lasts longer on the skin than oil is odourless and flavourless, and contains many benefits for the skin. A Nuru Massage involves both of you flattering yourselves or each other with gel and pressing and rubbing your bodies together to achieve the massage. 

Step one:  gather your supplies

Giving your partner a massage can be a very low-key Affair. It can be as simple as rubbing their feet while watching a movie or giving them a quick rubdown to relax before bedtime.  We are big fans of consensual touch and at-home massage. 

First, establish that your partner is interested in having a massage. Please don’t make all the effort to prepare only to find out they didn’t want this. Once you have established their enthusiastic consent, gather a few supplies to make the experience more enjoyable:

  • Order Nuru gel online
  • Get a drop cloth or some old towels that can be stained without issue 
  • Get an inflatable air mattress (optional but highly recommended)
  • Scented candles, calm music, additional massage oils (optional)

Step 2:  Prepare your space

Ensure that your space is ideal for your at-home Nuru Massage. The point of an erotic massage with your partner is to spend quality time with them and be present in the moment. This can be very hard to do if you are concerned about candles dripping on the upholstery or ruining the new sheets. If you want your massage to be refreshing, relaxing, and sexy, put some effort into making the space as conducive as possible.  Consider it an investment in your intimacy.

Use your senses to create a sexy atmosphere

Sight – tidy up, even just a bit. A clutter-free space will help you focus and relax, two essential concepts for tantric pleasure

Touch – bust out the massage oils and lubricant. Reducing friction and encouraging your hands to linger on your body (or partners) will extend the experience.

Smell – light a gently scented candle, spritz on a bottled scent that turns you on, eliminate distracting or unpleasant smells

Sound – quiet music is excellent for beginners: choose calm and rhythmic music to promote relaxation and help you become more in tune with your heartbeat.

Taste – before you begin, prepare yourself some refreshments for after. A light fruit snack and plenty of water is an excellent way to treat yourself afterwards.  

Step 3:  take a bath or shower together

Begin your massage session with a bath or shower. Bathing with a partner is highly intimate and can be very erotic in itself. Not only is it fun and sexy, you can literally and figuratively wash away the day and focus solely on each other. Take your time, have a glass of wine in the tub, and enjoy each other. Whether it’s a shower or bath, getting wet and naked is the perfect intro to an erotic Japanese Nuru Massage. 

Step 4:  Apply the Nuru gel and begin the massage

When bath time is over, it’s time to get started with a massage. If you are prepared appropriately, You should be able to move from the tub or shower to the airbed you’ve inflated for your erotic massage.  Beginning however you’d like to with kissing or touching, whatever it takes to get the ball rolling.  Before you start significant massaging, ensure that your hands and bodies are slick with Nuru gel. If you like, you can float the bottle in a sink full of hot water to take the chill off the lotion.  This adds an extra central element and considers your partner’s experience.

Step 5:  take turns or enjoy a mutual massage

How you accomplish your at-home Japanese Nuru Massage is entirely up to the two of you.  Don’t sweat the technique; just be present in the moment and enjoy the quality time you spend together. In the world of professional massage, there is such a thing as mutual massage, where the client touches the masseuse and gives her a massage. You and your partner can simultaneously massage each other or take turns spoiling one another.  How you do it is all up to you; there is no wrong way, so don’t get hung up or self-conscious about a lack of technique. 

Nuru is great for voyeurs and exhibitionists alike

Erotic massage is sexy by nature. Nuru Massage is extra sexy because of the superior slickness of the seaweed gel. Because it is a body-on-body form of massage, there are a million and one opportunities for you and your partner to enjoy each other physically and visually.  If you are unsure of how to position your body, try these simple moves or just improvise: 

  • One partner lays on their stomach, and the other one straddles their hips to massage their back and butt
  • One partner lays on their back with their knees bent, and the second partner sits in their lap, reclining against their thighs. You can clearly see the second partner’s most private places from here, perfect for putting on a show!
  • Sit comfortably facing each other and use only your feet to massage one another

There’s no wrong way to perform this massage, and you don’t need to worry about gymnastic or acrobatic positions; do what feels sexy while still being comfortable. 

Step 6: finish however you like

In the professional massage world, when a session ends with a climax, it’s called a ‘happy ending’. How happily your new room massage ends is up to the two of you. Erotic massage is a beautiful prelude to lovemaking. Still, it’s also a stand-alone experience, so always do what feels correct and suitable for both of you. 

Step 7: debrief

Post-coital debriefing might sound a bit cold, but it’s an excellent practice and something that many people in happy, healthy relationships do.  Talking about the sex you just had does not have to be awkward; in fact, it shouldn’t be awkward, considering how intimate you’ve been.  Use this time to talk about what you liked about your at-home massage and what you would do differently next time if anything. After experiencing something new together, this level of transparency will help you cement the experience and bring you closer.  

When in doubt, see a professional

You may be surprised to know that many couples who see erotic massage experts together have found the experience to be bonding and uplifting to their sex life.  It may seem counterintuitive, but a session with a professional Nuru masseuse will help you and your partner see each other in a new light. Also, I might learn a few tricks along the way! 

Ultimately, erotic massage is a tool like anything else. It can help you relieve stress or sleep better and even help you communicate within your relationship. Whatever your reason or purpose for seeking out erotic massage,  we are here to assist.  Call us today to schedule your first session with one of our stunningly gorgeous masseuses. You will be glad you did!

It’s one thing to read about the lingam massage experience, but it is something entirely different to have your own. There’s no reason to hesitate; pick up the phone and give us a ring, and we will set you up for the time of your life within minutes. Whether you seek deep tissue relaxation or a slippery, sexy, happy-ending massage, Secret Tantric has what you need. And we know how to give it to you!  Call us today to set up your appointment. You will not regret it!


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