You may think that London tantric massage is just for men. But women partake of our services all the time! The tantric and erotic massage industry is geared more towards men than women. Luckily, that doesn’t mean that us ladies can’t  get in on the fun. Our female clients return time and again because our masseuses, all of which are women, make them feel beautiful and safe. Erotic massage is an intimate act, one that can be quite complex for some women, so we do our best to make you feel respected and empowered. Read more to learn about the benefits of tantric massage for women in London!

Tantric massage for women is an ever-growing part of our business. Many people assume that an erotic or tantric massage agency like Secret Tantric would only have male clients. We have a wide variety of male clients from all walks of life and kinds of work. We also have a small contingent of female clients. Providing an appropriate and useful service like tantric massage for women means we have had to listen carefully to our masseuses. We have taken their feedback on what the tantric massage for women should be like. We rely on the aptitudes of our masseuses to guide our clients, male and female alike, through massage techniques that will be beneficial them. 

Women seek out tantric massage for many reasons

What people may not understand at first, is that while most of our male clients partake in tantric massage for pleasure, our female clients often have different needs. Women primarily seek out erotic massage for very specific reasons. These reasons tend to meet acute needs. Most of our male clients enjoy our massage as a form of entertainment and overall self care. Our female clients tend to seek out massage when they are facing a particular difficulty. We get female bookings after a bad breakup or a dip in libido. Whatever the reason, our masseuses are equipped to help our women clients work through their situations and desires. We are committed to giving them the tantric massage for women that they need. 

When you’re feeling undervalued

Women book massages with Secret Tantric for all kinds of reasons. The most common reason that we hear is that they are feeling underappreciated or undervalued in their relationships. This also seems to ring true for single women who are tired of the dating game. Continually putting yourself out there in the dating scene, facing rejection and hostility from men, is exhausting. Whether their man is failing to see their greatness or they’re exhausted from being in the grinding mill of dating apps, there is refuge at Secret Tantric. A tantric massage for women, by women, alleviates the tension that dating and relationships can cause. 

When you’re broken hearted

Fixing a broken heart is something we all have to do at some point in our lives. The hurt left behind from an emotional connection can take a significant amount of effort to heal. Everyone, men and women alike, struggle with breakups. Many women come to us for a sense of validation that they lost somehow during their breakup. Relationships ending can be very difficult, they can be a big blow to the ego, and to one’s sense of self. They can also just really hurt. Creating a safe space for tantric massage for women has proven to be an important part of our business model. Our masseuses are well equipped to soothe, listen, and empathise with even the most tragic break up stories. You’ll never feel alone or misunderstood at the hands of our beautiful masseuses.

When you feel ugly or unlovable

We sincerely hope that no woman ever feels ugly or unlovable but we know that’s not the case. There are many factors that contribute to the weakening and undermining of a woman’s sense of self. The pay gap, the orgasm gap, and a constant barrage of criticism makes it hard work to be a woman. Our masseuses have connected with some of the most brave and beautiful women in London because they valued themselves enough to proactively seek out a tantric massage for women. Self-care is an essential part of any woman’s life and knowing what you need is half the battle.  Spend an hour with one of our masseuses and reinvigorate your belief in your inner beauty and the sacredness of your femininity.

When you really need to just be touched

The pandemic has left a lot of scars for a lot of people. One of the things that psychological research is just starting to understand, is how much of an impact the lack of touch and connection has had on people. Women especially, who are raised to be affectionate and tactile, are struggling. Lack of sensual touch affects the human psyche in a number of ways. It contributes to a sense of loneliness and existential questions about our human value. Also, women have sexual needs as strongly as and as frequently as men. So let’s not undersell a woman’s need for sensual and sexual contact. We see a lot of women for emotional reasons. Tantric massage for women is a tool for accessing those emotions. We also see a lot of women who simply want to be touched and experience physical pleasure. 

When you’re working through your sexuality

It was always a given that we would provide sacred Yoni massage for women. We are often asked if our masseuses are bisexual or lesbian if they do tantric massage for women. We are less concerned with the combination of sexualities in your massage, and more concerned with an openness and dialogue around sexuality if that is what our client needs. You don’t need to be bi or gay to receive a tantric massage for women. It is, by design, a sexual and intimate experience  but it doesn’t have to be about the sexual energy between you and your masseuse. 

When you need to feel safe to explore

Energy and intention plays a very big part in tantric massage so focus and comfort is essential. Our female clients often report after their massages that they felt safe and empowered by their tantric massage for women. Furthermore, that their boundaries were respected and the masseuse communicated well with them. As women, our masseuses understand how women want and need to be touched. They also understand the importance of clear consent with women and making the environment conducive to emotional and physical reactions. It may be a male-dominated industry in terms of clientele but our Queens give a massage that is beneficial to anyone who receives it. We like to see ourselves as an equal opportunity massage agency; your  orientation and needs will always be respected.

When you’re having body issues

Our society is particularly cruel to women. The expectations of beauty and femininity are often nearly impossible to achieve. Many women face periods of their lives where they struggle with their body image and their self image. Diet culture, fashion, the media in general, all make it very hard to be a woman who feels good about her body. Our masseuses are incredibly beautiful but they are not immune to criticism from society. This makes them the ideal team of resources because they have an innate understanding of the frustrations and hardships women go through. They may be beautiful, and meet the exacting beauty standards of our culture, but they also know how it feels to look in the mirror and not like what you see sometimes. We believe that women should uplift other women, and our masseuses do a great job of making our clients feel beautiful, natural, and special.

 When your body no longer feels like your own

It is not uncommon for our female clients to visit us after childbirth. Many women express feeling disenfranchised from their own bodies after childbirth. This is a common occurrence and one that is quite well understood by doctors and psychologists. We also have women who visit us in the wake of tragedy. Miscarriages, terminations and stillbirths are situations that can leave a woman feeling vulnerable in her own body. The grief process is complex, and many women do not feel sexual at all while grieving. The weight of grief and experience leaves many women feeling a void where their sexuality was.  Likewise illness or a change of life can leave women feeling flat about their sexual selves. By creating a safe space, a tantric massage for women can be extremely healing and has been used this way for centuries.

When you’re working through trauma

Sadly, our world is often unsafe for women. A baffling number of women in the UK face sexual assault and rape every year. The ongoing and lasting damage that this trauma incurs can leave a woman feeling stripped of her autonomy, power, and sexual confidence.  Many women have sought out tantric massage for women as a way to combat that lack of autonomy. By taking control of their sexual selves and initiating a physical experience like tantric massage, some women are able to get back what they feel they’ve lost. Sexual pain, be it mental, emotional, or physical, is wholly unnecessary, and is symptomatic of some very broken parts of our culture. Secret tantric is a company that supports and uplifts women, so we are proud to be an option in any woman’s self-care or healing journey.

When you just want to try something new

Perhaps you’ve never paid for a massage, or maybe you feel like you’ve never had exactly what you want in a sexual or intimate experience. Maybe you’ve never been touched intimately by a woman and you’re curious about what all the fuss is. Whatever your reasons, at Secret Tantric we believe that tantric massage for women is the way forward. By no means does this industry need to be filled with only male clientele. Tantric massage for women is an opportunity for a new experience, learning about yourself, and feeling really good. How many things in your life truly make you feel good? We could all use a bit of a spring in our step and a renewed sense of vigour. It is a courageous step to do something you’ve never done before end it is brave to do something just for you. We’d like to help you do just that!

Because no one understands a woman’s body like a woman

No matter the reason for your tantric massage, we know that you will leave feeling more than satisfied because no one understands a woman’s body like another woman. The nuance and sensitivity that a woman has when touching another woman’s body is simply unparalleled. Even the most gifted and patient male lovers cannot fully empathise and understand the exquisite detail and sensitivity of the female body. If you are looking for a sensual experience that excites every nerve without any fumbling distraction, tantric massage for women might be just what you need. Many of our female clients have shared that the orgasm they achieved during their tantric massage was head and shoulders above any climax a male lover has given them. No hate to men and their skills, many are spectacular lovers, but women innately know exactly which buttons to push. 

What are you waiting for?

There’s no reason to hesitate, simply pick up the phone and give us a ring and we will have you set up for the time of your life within minutes . Whether you seek deep tissue relaxation or a slippery sexy happy ending massage, Secret Tantric has what you need. And we know how to give it to you!  Call us today to set up your appointment. You will not regret it!


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