If you’ve never had one, you might be curious about what happens in an erotic massage.  it is important to remember that no two erotic massages are the same, and there will be differences between an at home erotic massage and a professional erotic massage.  here at Secret Tantric, we set the gold standard in London for erotic massage.  We offer a VIP luxury experience to each and every one of our clients. We are known far and wide as the best in the business. If your curiosity gets the best of you, come visit us and we will show you first hand what happens in an erotic massage.  If you’re not quite ready to take the plunge and you’re still just gathering information, then keep reading to find out all of the ins and outs of what happens in an erotic massage.

The concept of an erotic massage is fairly straightforward. It is exactly what it sounds like:  a massage that is erotic. But how do we define both massage and eroticism? In general and erotic massage is a full body massage conducted in the nude, by a nude masseuse. The difference between a regular massage and an erotic massage is that a regular massage is done with the hands only. An erotic massage is often a full body to body experience. You can see how an erotic massage is significantly different from a normal massage and how much variety the level of eroticism can add but what happens in an erotic massage is really up to the client.  Below we have outlined some common questions and answers to help you understand what happens in an erotic massage.

Is erotic massage legal in the UK?

Although sensual and erotic massage is not legal everywhere, it certainly is in the UK. Regardless of legality, unfortunately, there are still a lot of shady businesses in this industry. Luckily, Secret Tantric is not one of them. We are completely legitimate, above board, legal, and the furthest thing from a bait and switch.  The services that we provide are all legal, and there is no risk to our clients whatsoever. Beyond that, we strive for excellence in terms of discretion and privacy. No one ever needs to know that you had an erotic massage. Your secret is safe with us.

If it’s legal, why is it so taboo?

Like so many things in the adult industry, or adjacent to sex itself,  legality and taboo are not mutually exclusive. There are many benefits to erotic massage being a legal activity: it makes for a safer situation for the masseuses, and provides regulations that benefit everyone, including clients. But, just because something is legal, doesn’t mean that it is accepted or talked about. Our culture in the UK is not particularly sex-positive, and a lot of moralism is still attached to the concept of paying for erotic experiences. This outlook is slowly shifting and moving in the right direction, however it is still not widely accepted. Ironically, there is no shortage of demand for erotic massage. Luckily, there is also no shortage of supply. More and more people are becoming comfortable with doing this sort of work and reaping the benefits of being independently employed.

Why choose erotic massage?

Erotic massage is nothing new. It is something that has been around since time immemorial. Once reserved only for royalty and people of the highest classes, erotic massage has been democratised in the modern world.  The desire to touch and be touched is part of the human condition and a part of the very fabric of what makes us who we are. Because of this innate need for touch and intimacy, it is hard to see how erotic massage could be deemed a bad thing. As tantric massage and erotic massage professionals in London, we know the benefits of erotic massage are many, and that this form of therapy is highly undervalued. Erotic massage can be a wonderful way to connect with your body and your own sexuality. It can also be a wonderful way to bond and ignite chemistry within a couple. Basically, erotic massage has no downside!

Is all erotic massage sexual?

All erotic massage is sensual, but sensuality is not necessarily sexual.  Erotic massage is appropriate for adults, and is more often than not somewhat sexual. At Secret Tantric there is no expectation of our clients to engage in any strictly sexual activity. Our clients choose their level of nudity and set boundaries about how they would like to be touched. Some of our clients are interested in the physical contact and conversation they receive from our masseuses. Other clients are primarily focused on having a more specifically sexual experience that centres on their arousal. To put it simply, an erotic massage can be whatever you want it to be, both professionally and at home. 

Is there always a happy ending?

If someone suggests a happy ending massage to you you would probably imagine a questionable massage parlour,  a lack of transparency with the staff, and a rather hasty finish.  This may be true of the cheap and tawdry massage parlours that exist out in the world. But this is not true of Secret Tantric!  Much like the degree of sensuality, the option for a happy ending is always in the hands of our clients. How they reach that ending is negotiable, but certainly not required. If you are thinking about embarking on the adventure of an erotic massage, considering whether or not you would like a grand finale is worth thinking about before you go.  Always check that this is an option at the agency that you seek out, and always check whether or not it is expected or implied. 

Be prepared to be pampered

The sole objective of a professional massage is to leave the client feeling like they got more than they came for. Add Secret Tantric we take a lot of care in making your massage a comfortable and seamless experience. Are masseuses are Masters at creating a sexy and inviting environment for your massage. Ambience goes a long way. You will be treated to flickering candle light, delicious scents, warm towels and high quality massage oils. If you are recreating an erotic massage at home, all of these things can easily be acquired in store or online. Taking the time and effort to craft an ideal environment for an erotic massage is never a waste of time. It will only enrich and deepen the sensuality of the experience.

The best kind of messy

Without the sexy slip and slide of oils, an erotic massage is just an uncomfortable rub down. at Secret Tantric we use organic, cold pressed, pure grape seed oil. We have found through trial and error that grapeseed oil is the most ideal massage oil. Not only is it non-comedogenic, meaning that it does not clog pores or cause issues with the skin, it is one of the easiest oils to clean up.  Because erotic massage is a body to body experience, oil is very necessary. But oil can be messy! Sliding two bodies together requires copious lubrication but we like to think of it as the best kind of messy. having one of our stunning masseuses press her nude breasts, buttocks, thighs or stomach against your body will not be an experience you soon forget. What can we say? We only work with the best.

But wait …  what about the ending?

Depending on where you receive your erotic massage, a happy ending may or may not be on the menu. If it is oh, there’s no reason to be nervous. Many people, particularly men, are anxious about the happy ending. This can be for many reasons: premature ejaculation, an inability to orgasm, and the vulnerability of coming with a stranger, can all add up. It’s important to remember that what happens in an erotic massage, stays in your erotic massage.  Your masseuse has literally seen it all.  There is no need to be nervous about finishing with her. She will guide you through the process of the massage and give you all of the encouragement and assurance that you need to have a phenomenal finish to your erotic massage.

Logistics and other details

For those who have never experienced an erotic massage and are wondering what happens in an erotic massage the logistical details can create anxiety. We  get all sorts of questions from clients, all of which are worth asking when you call in to set up your appointment. Things that we have been asked in the past:

  • Is there anything special that I should wear? – Not at all. We recommend that you dress in whatever way makes your feel confident and ready to meet someone new. 
  • Do I need to bring a rubber? – Certainly not. There’s no reason to think you’ll need one, and if you did, your masseuse is well stocked.
  • Am I expected to tip my masseuse? – Not expected, gratuities are appreciated but not required. 
  • Do I pay before or after? – Each agency is different, but at Secret Tantric you will pay your masseuse directly, before your massage begins.
  • I just showered this morning, that’s good enough right? – That’s great but you will still be required to shower upon arrival before your massage begins.
  •  When my massage is over do I have to be done or can I stay for longer? – Our masseuse’s schedules are very tightly managed so if, and only if, she has additional time available, can you add on. Ideally, you would decide on the time frame before the massage begins to that there is not rush.
  •  Can I bring a gift for my masseuse? – Gifts are lovely and generous but not required or expected. You probably wouldn’t bring a gift to a chef in a restaurant you were eating in, nor would you take a gift when you visited a personal trainer or a chiropractor, etc. so bringing a gift to a stranger just for doing her job likely won’t ingratiate you on the first visit. 

You’ll have fun, we are sure of it

As you can see, there’s no reason to worry about what happens in an erotic massage. If you are inexperienced in the world of adult entertainment, remember, you can always ask questions. If you are on the shore of a policy or what to expect, checking out the company’s website for FAQ use, or sending in a quick email or making a call with your questions can help set your mind at ease.  Simply put, this is customer service at its very best.  This does not mean that the client is always right, or that you get everything you asked for. Just because you are a paying customer does not mean that you have any more right or access  to your masseuse  than if you weren’t.

Thank you, come again

Add Secret Tantric we have an incredible return rate with our clients. Most of our first-time clients become repeat clients, and our repeat clients are very loyal. Maybe it’s because we are just so good at what we do, or because our masseuses are so incredibly beautiful. Whatever it is, we aim to please, and please we do. There is no sense worrying or wondering what happens in an erotic massage when you can simply book your own. You know you want to! Indulge your curiosity, try something new, and call us today. You will be so glad that you did.

What are you waiting for?

It’s one thing to read about the sensual massage experience, but it is something else entirely to have your own. There’s no reason to hesitate, simply pick up the phone and give us a ring and we will have you set up for the time of your life within minutes . Whether you seek deep tissue relaxation or a slippery sexy happy ending massage, Secret Tantric has what you need. And we know how to give it to you!  Call us today to set up your appointment. You will not regret it!

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