The desire for body to body massage is rapidly increasing in the UK and abroad. As a form of sensual massage, body on body massage is just about as intimate as it gets. For this reason, not everyone is ready for a professional body to body massage, but that doesn’t mean you have to miss out. Providing  essential and intimate  experience for your partner is much easier than you think and will no doubt be something that they love. If you are excited to try body on body massage at-home, this is the article for you. Follow our simple step-by-step guide for an amazing body on body massage in the comfort of your own home.

It’s no wonder that body on body massage is becoming so popular. It is an absolutely delightful way to experience a full body massage, as the giver or receiver.  Body on body massage holds no secrets, it’s exactly what you think it is. A good body on body massage is all about the tactile sensations of one slickly oiled body rubbing against another. If this sounds like heaven to you, you are not alone. You have the opportunity to live out this fantasy in the comfort and privacy of your own home with your partner, if they are willing. With very few supplies, a little bit of planning, and passionate execution, you and your partner can experience this intimate activity together.

The full scope of body on body massage

In the professional erotic massage industry, body on body massage is a frequently requested form of Massage Therapy. Professional body to body massage Is generally defined as a nude full body massage where the masseuse uses their body as the primary massage tool. This means that the client lays back and the masseuse uses their legs, arms, chest, and body weight to massage and titillate the recipient. These are the usual professional limitations of a body on body massage.  However, a body on body massage between partners or lovers can look like anything you want it to be.  The two of you are limited only by your personal boundaries and your imaginations so feel free to let loose and really experience each other through this intimate and sensual Act.

Don’t get hung up on technique

Professional erotic masseuses use a variety of legitimate massage techniques in their sensual massages. Don’t worry if your at-home body on body massage is lacking technical finesse.  Instead of concerning yourself with the quality of the massage, focus on the quality of the entire experience. This means an appropriate amount of preparation and communication before things begin as well as using the tools and supplies you have at hand.  We promise you that your intention, focus, and effort will mean much more to your partner than hitting all of the pressure points that a professional masseuse would.  As already intimate Partners it’s totally okay to plan for your massage to evolve into something more. A complete body on body massage is a fantastic addition to your usual foreplay and we’ll get any evening started off on the right foot. 

Plan ahead to build anticipation

Many couples complain that their partner is not as spontaneous as they like them to be. Spontaneity is all well and good, but there is still a place in relationships for planning. Giving your partner a full body on body massage at-home  is a lovely way to connect or reconnect and it will go much smoother if you plan ahead.  ensure that you have communicated the idea to your partner and that they are enthusiastic about the idea. This is the kind of treat that is great to suggest midweek for a Friday or Saturday night alone. Try body on body massage at-home and you will change date night forever. Planning ahead also ensures that you have all of the supplies that you need and you’ve considered all of the details.

What will you need in order to try body on body massage in home

The best at-home massages are a little bit messy. In fact, body on body massage might be the messiest. Do not let this deter you! It will be absolutely worth it and taking a bit of time to amass the necessary supplies will mitigate the mess and make the whole experience more enjoyable. 

Massage oil

We said it might be messy and oil is the culprit.  Anytime that you use massage oils, you run the risk of making a bit of a mess or standing the materials around you. This is in part because in the depths of a massage the last thing you should be thinking about is keeping things clean. This is why we recommend going into the experience fully aware of what you’re doing and how to do it best. The last thing you want is you or your partner stressing about dribbling massage oil on the new sheets or smearing precious upholstery. 

At Secret Tantric we exclusively use 100% pure cold-pressed virgin grapeseed oil 

We have chosen this particular oil because it is light to the touch, odourless and flavourless, and it stands up to a great deal of friction.  Slower to absorb than some other massage oils, it is also non comedogenic which means that your skin will receive all of its moisturising benefits without clogging your pores. Grape seed oil is readily available online and in-store. If you have another kind of massage oil that you like to use, or you can’t find grapeseed, that’s just fine.  Any sort of vegetable based oil will work in a pinch. We recommend avoiding commercial massage oil blends that have  strong scents as they can be irritating to the skin and sinuses.

Drop-cloths or old towels

Body on body massage uses a lot of massage oil. This is because the entire point is to be absolutely slick and frictionless as you rub against one another.  When you are preparing the space for your massage, be sure to put down some old towels, preferably dark coloured or some sort of drop cloth in case there are any drips or spills.  Another option is to put down a waterproof sheets,  like the kind that sex toy companies cell. Basically you want to create a barrier between the oil on your hands and body and any porous surfaces you might touch. Consider things like Furniture, textiles, even wooden floors can take on stains from oil.

Create some ambience

Creating the ideal environment for an erotic massage like a body on body massage with your partner is Important.  if you are going to go to the effort of providing this sort of intimate massage for your partner, you may as well go all out. You don’t have to spend a lot of money or drive yourself crazy trying to find elusive supplies. In most cases what you have on hand will work, just make sure that they are close at hand for when you need them.  Create an Ambience that is ideal for relaxation is quite simple.

Use your five senses to create the perfect massage environment

Prepare for your body on body massage at-home by appealing to all five of the human senses:

  • Sight – tidy up, even just a bit. A clutter-free space will help both of you focus and relax, two essential concepts for sensual pleasure.
  • Touch – Warm your massage oil. Encouraging your hands to linger on your body (or your partners) will heighten and extend the experience.
  • Smell – Light a gently scented candle, spritz on a bottled scent that turns you on, and eliminate distracting or unpleasant smells.
  • Sound – Quiet music is perfect. Choose music that is calm and rhythmic to promote relaxation and help you become more in-tune with each other’s heart beats.
  • Taste – Before you begin, prepare yourself some refreshment for after the massage is done. A light snack of fruit and plenty of water is a nice way to treat yourselves afterwards.  

Begin your body on body massage

If erotic massage is a new concept in your relationship, it can be nerve-wracking in the beginning. Don’t worry if you feel a lot of nervous excitement or a little bit of awkwardness before you start. Focus on the fact that this is real quality time with your partner and  that is what matters.  We recommend starting with a bath or shower together.  

This accomplishes a couple of things:

  • Showering before a massage is a great way to Silence the busyness of your mind. Massage is as much mental as it is physical so taking time to get into a more mellow frame of mind will always be helpful.
  •  Having a hot shower before your session prime’s your skin and muscles for the treat they are about to receive. Massage oil will work better on warm damp skin and the efficacy of the massage will be increased.

The language of touch

How you touch your partner during a body on body massage at-home is very important.  Many of the massage disciplines from around the world consider the intention and feeling behind touch to be almost as important as the physical aspect. Gentle touch is a wonderful way to begin, and intense touch is the most soothing on the body. Your touch can be flirtatious and teasing, or it can be intense and dominating. Listen to what your partner wants and pay attention to how they are responding to your touch. Seeking your partner’s ongoing and enthusiastic consent throughout the massage can only improve it. Let them know where you’re going to touch them next and ask them how they feel about that, talk them through what you’re doing and enjoy making them melt. 

Slippery is sexy

The sensual fluidity that massage oil provides between your two bodies is the entire point of body on body massage.  To begin, try using more than your hands to massage your partner. We recommend that you begin with their back and start at their feet.  Use as much oil as needed to keep your hands slick and slippery. If you feel that there is too much heat or friction between their body and your hands, add more oil. It may seem a lot, but remember it’s being absorbed by both your hands and their skin, so you will need to reapply.  Use your forearms, elbows and chest to massage the back side of their body. If you want to prolong and extend the pleasure, avoid  erogenous zones like the inner thighs, buttocks and armpits  at first. You can always circle back to a part of their body you’ve already massaged. 

Climb aboard

Once your partner is adequately slippery with oil, feel free to gently climb atop them. Depending on your level of strength and flexibility there are a number of positions that you can try:

  • Straddle their hips and lean forward to massage their back or chest
  •  positioning yourself over them in a “crab” position on your hands and feet using your back and bottom to massage them
  •  face them or turn towards their feet and use your thighs and body weight to massage their back or chest and abdomen

Again, don’t get too caught up on the technical positions. This is an at-home massage between partners, literally anything goes. The point is to engage your bodies together and enjoy the intimate slipperiness between you. How you accomplish that is entirely up to you, and don’t let any limitations of your body’s abilities dampen the mood. 

Make your massage mutual

There’s absolutely nothing wrong with taking turns with an erotic massage. In fact it can be wonderful to give your partner a massage with no expectation that they turn around and return the favour.  If you’re up for it you can switch part way through and both experience having 100% of the other focus and attention. Another way to experience the intimacy of body on body massage is to make it a mutual massage. In the professional world of erotic massage Mutual massage is quite common. This is where the client, or recipient, is encouraged to massage their masseuse as well.  In an at-home situation between intimate partners, this might derail your massage quite quickly, in the best way. Again, allow the evening to take you where it will and focus on the quality of time you’re spending together not the nuts and bolts of how you’re spending it. 

When it’s over

When you’ve made it through your body on body massage at-home, we recommend that you re-hydrate and grab a snack.  Remember that plate of fruit you prepared beforehand?  Now’s the time to bring it out.  Take some time to bask in each other’s glow as you enjoy a restorative Sip and snack.  This is a great time to debrief about the massage and what you both loved about it. Be sure to take another shower together and wash away the massage oil that has accumulated on both of your bodies. This can be a lovely sensual way to cap off the session and really solidify the intimacy that you’ve conjured.

Try going pro

Visiting a professional erotic masseuse as a couple has many benefits.  Not only will you enjoy an incredible massage experience together, you will learn several techniques and tricks you can try at-home next time. Likewise, if you are interested in learning more about intimate massage, do look into our workshops held by the biggest names in UK tantric healing. We would love to be a part of your erotic massage journey, so book a session with one of our masseuses who specialises in couples massage today!

What are you waiting for?

It’s one thing to read about the body on body massage experience but it is something else entirely to have your own. There’s no reason to hesitate, simply pick up the phone and give us a ring and we will have you set up for the time of your life within minutes . Whether you seek deep tissue relaxation or a slippery sexy happy ending massage, Secret Tantric has what you need. And we know how to give it to you!  Call us today to set up your appointment. You will not regret it!

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