Looking for something sexy and new to try in the bedroom? Surprise your beloved and try a naturist massage at home. More than a hasty back rub, it will have you both in the buff and loving it! With some preparation, you can treat your partner to a relaxing massage that may heat things and bring out your wild side.
In a Naturist Massage, everything is done in the nude; both the recipient of the message, as well as the masseuse, is fully undressed for the duration. This might seem a bit wild or naughty if you were with a stranger, but if you try a naturist massage at home with a partner, you’ve got to go all in. A Naturist Massage is best with some preparation because an atmosphere conducive to relaxation and connection is needed. Spending a few minutes to create the ideal mood will help your minds and bodies become ready for pleasure, and you’ll be fully invested.
Prepare a space that feels good
Believe it or not, the intention and attention you spend while preparing for your at-home naturist massage will impact the experience. Take a small amount of time and care to make things nice. An easy way to ensure you’ve considered everything is to prepare using all 5 of your senses:
- Sight – tidy up, even just a bit. A clutter-free space will help you focus and relax, two essential concepts for sensual pleasure
- Touch – bust out the massage oils and lubricant. Reducing friction and encouraging your hands to linger on your bodies will heighten and extend the experience.
- Smell – light a gently scented candle, spritz on a bottled scent that turns you both on, and eliminate distracting or unpleasant smells
- Sound – quiet music is helpful, not distracting: choose music that is calm and rhythmic to promote relaxation and help you become more in tune with your heart beats.
- Taste – before you begin, prepare yourself some refreshments for after. A light fruit snack and plenty of water are a nice way to treat yourself afterwards.
Have oil on hand
At Secret Tantric, we use only organic, cold-pressed, virgin grapeseed oil, and we recommend you do too. After much trial and error, this is our massage oil of choice for several reasons:
- odourless and flavourless
- non-comedogenic, meaning it will not give you breakouts or spots
- easy to obtain both in-store and online
- it is a high-quality oil but doesn’t come at an exorbitant price
You could use any kind of vegetable-based oil, including coconut oil, however, other vegetable based oils tend to clog the skin’s pores which no one wants. Whatever you use, lay down some dark-coloured towels or other drop cloths to absorb any spills and prevent stains. Oils will stain hardwood floors, soft materials and some unsealed stone surfaces.
Prepare your bodies
Assuming that you will take turns giving each other massages, you can both do a little bit of preparation to make everything more comfortable.
- Be well rested
- Stay well hydrated
- Empty your bladder before you begin
- Evacuate your bowels 2-3 hours before your session
- Douching/irrigating is not required, but it will give you an added sense of confidence and security if there will be any anal exploration
- Shower or bathe together before you start
A Naturist Massage is about the journey, not the destination. Show the depth of your desire with synchronised deep breathing. Awaken your body with this focused breathing, which will immediately alert your senses and intensify pleasure.
Inhale: Draw a breath in smoothly through your nose, silently, steadily, counting to four. Let your chest open and fill with air, but don’t hunch your shoulders up.
Hold: Keep that breath in your chest and silently count to seven. The first time you may not make it to seven, and that’s okay. As you repeat the pattern, it will become easier.
Exhale: Let your breath out through your mouth as you count to eight. Use the whole time and steadily push all the breath out of your chest.
Go through these “belly breaths” with your partner at least four more times to centre yourselves and prepare yourselves for your Naturist Massage.
Breathing with a partner is super sexy and super easy. Try sitting cross-legged on the floor or bed and have her sit in your lap with her legs around you. This is known as the ‘lotus’ position, allowing you to sync up your breathing and heartbeats. Resist the urge to distract each other as you do this initial breathwork. It is foundational to the slow build of energy needed for the most incredible release later.
Clarity, Communication and Consent
The best part about trying a Naturist Massage at home is that you can do whatever feels good for both of you. When you engage in a new activity as a couple, it’s important to seek each other’s consent. It can be as simple as giving them a heads-up about where you will touch them next or asking them if they enjoy how you’re touching them. Consider the following phrases and use them as needed:
- How does that feel?
- Is that enough/too much pressure?
- Next I’m going to touch your _____, is that okay?
Get down to the good stuff
Add variety by using different body parts to apply pressure and contact with theirs. Try climbing atop them (if they are okay with that).
- Begin by having your partner lay on their stomach face down. This will give you access to their back, buttocks and legs, and the soles of their feet.
- Start with their feet, then move to their calves and the backs of their thighs, again massaging one side and then the other. Rub their hips and waist, gently working the muscles up each side of their spine to their shoulders.
- Don’t neglect the shoulders and neck. Be sure to work down each arm to their hand, repeating one side after the other.
All the erogenous zones
Once you have massaged them head to toe, your partner will be very relaxed and may be ready for more intense or sexual touching. Please pay particular attention to their neck, the small of their back, the cushions of their buttocks, and the sides of their thighs. These erogenous zones will get things moving quite quickly when your partner is already relaxed and pampered. Resist indulging them too much too quickly. Instead, make them wait and let the delicious erotic tension build. When you’re finished with the back side of your partner’s body, have them turn over so you can work on their front. If you both have self-control, you can begin again at their feet and repeat the process of working on the front of their body.
Resisting the urge to ravish each other may sound counterproductive, but by waiting, just a little bit, you can achieve a more explosive climax.
Don’t hold back
When they are ready, finish them off. Whether you choose manual stimulation, oral stimulation, or penetration is up to the two of you. Note that the massage oil may or may not be an appropriate sexual lubricant so If it’s not, be sure to use your favourite lube as needed. How you and your partner reach the pinnacle of pleasure through Naturist Massage is entirely up to you. Likewise, nothing says that Naturist Massage at home needs to end with sex or orgasm. Naturist Massage is a great tool for intimacy because it requires both partners to be present and vulnerable. Just be sure you seek, understand, and listen to your partner’s intimate needs.
Always circle back and talk about the massage. This doesn’t need to be a critical conversation. Still, it also doesn’t need to be filled with excessive praise because the intimacy of connecting through Naturist Massage at home is sharing this information honestly. These are the foundations of bonding and intimacy. Rehydrate, enjoy the pre-prepared snack, and enjoy the come-down from the high of pleasure. We guarantee you will soon be planning another naturist massage at home if you do it once.
Try it with a professional!
A DIY massage is great, but don’t deny yourself the exceptional pleasure and mind-expanding experience of a professional Naturist Massage. Just a quick call and you can be set up for a sexy session with a stunningly beautiful masseuse who will guide you through the massage process and leave you feeling completely refreshed.
What are you waiting for?
Our masseuses are there for you, to guide you through the Naturist Massage process and provide you with an energetic and enthusiastic experience. So, the question isn’t why you should choose a Naturist Massage; it’s why you wouldn’t. Give us a ring and set up your appointment today! Give us a ring at Secret Tantric VIP London! We will set you up for the next available spot with the masseuses of your dreams!
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