A tantric massage is an exciting and fulfilling experience, but if you’ve never done it before you might be a bit overwhelmed. The key is to feel and be prepared and have appropriate expectations. If you want to know how to get the most out of your tantric massage experience, this is the article for you. We will give you all the tips and tricks you need to be ready to fully relax and enjoy your tantric massage experience. 

All about tantric massage

Booking yourself a tantric massage is truly a gift and an investment in your wellness.  Many people have misconceptions about tantric massage and they focus solely on the erotic components. Tantric massage is a traditional form of healing that originated in India in the sixth century. Tantra, and its subtopics, such as massage, have been practised the world over ever since. A true tantric massage is an experience that attends to one’s physical, mental,  and erotic needs. Tantric massage promotes circulation and cardiac health, it relieves stress and improve sleep, and it helps to redistribute sexual energy within the body. 

Why you should get a tantric massage

There are a million and one reasons to get a tantric massage and zero reasons not to. Some people are unsettled by the stigma and negative associations with tantric massage, that it’s too sexual. A tantric massage is still a massage and if you don’t want a happy ending that’s absolutely fine. that said, a tantric massage is still an erotic activity and still falls under the umbrella of adult entertainment. In terms of the weight of the moral infraction of tantric massage, only you can decide what that is. Tantric masseuses are professionals and are trained to treat the body while arousing the mind. No matter how Intense or intimate your session gets, we know that you will leave feeling better than when you came in, which is the true purpose of tantric massage.  There’s nothing wrong with feeling good.

Preparing for your tantric massage

A tantric massage does not require a lot of fussy preparation or stress beforehand.  In fact, a lot of our bookings are the same day, with clients just stepping out for lunch and going to their appointments or visiting their favourite masseuse on the way home from the office in the evening. In this way, preparation for your tantric massage appointment is really more about awareness and consideration, or understanding the process if it’s your first time. The preparation for massage should be relaxing and that includes not worrying too much about the appointment itself. Once you have had a tantric massage and you’re familiar with what to expect, it will be a breeze.

Beauty, pleasure, and healing

Traditionally, tantric massage has been used for all sorts of reasons for all sorts of healing. For centuries it has been used as a pain management strategy for menstruating women as well as part of postnatal care right. Tantric massage is also associated with the healing of trauma, particularly sexual trauma. one of the primary tenants of tantric massage is the unblocking of Trapped sexual energy within the body. By moving this trapped energy through intentional touch focussed breathing and meditation, these blockages that cause emotional harm can be relieved. Once the negative associations and energies have been relieved they can be replaced with more neutral and positive pleasurable experiences and associations. Tantra is about connectedness and introspection through intentionality and intimacy. Even if this sort of growth is not your purpose for tantric massage, you may feel more in tune with yourself and your body after your session.

What’s in a breath?

In tantric massage practice we use what is called a belly breath. Belly breaths are a simple and calming way to slow down your body systems and relax by flooding your body with oxygen. to do a belly breath sit comfortably or lay comfortably and let your body relax into a neutral position inhale slowly taking a full h s to draw your breath in through your nose. Once your lungs are full hold that breath for 5 seconds and slowly exhale through your mouth using another 8 seconds to do so. During your massage your masseuse may help you control your breathing so that you can achieve the state of openness and relaxation that is needed. She will guide the pace and flow of the appointment and she will be able to encourage and support your relaxation in order to maximise your excitement and arousal.

You get what you give

Very little is expected of you as the client at a tantric massage. Beyond being clean and respectful, you simply need to show up and follow your masseuse’s lead. Despite the fact that your role is relatively passive, the emotional and cerebral nature  of Tantra means that what you bring to your session is ultimately what you will get out of your session. There is no expectation that you will show up to your appointment well-rested and in a great mood. We know that part of what brings our clients to us are negative circumstances such as being overtired, irritable, or going through some sort of a situation. 

Go in with an open heart

You don’t need to be your best self when you arrive but you need to be open to leaving feeling better. Sometimes clients are stuck in their own misery and can’t see their way out. For those clients the best we can do is give them an hour of pleasure and escapism. The more open you are to improvements through tantric massage, the more likely you are to feel those results. For some people tantric massage seems too deep or too much like new age mumbo jumbo.  Keeping an open heart and focussing on what you can get from the  session instead of feeling self-conscious about the process, will inevitably give you a better experience.  Likewise, if you see your masseuse as nothing more than a cheap tart with massage oil, you will be missing out on the strength, beauty, and grace that consummate tantric massage professionals possess. 

Come out with a clear mind

Giving yourself over to the joys and benefits of tantric massage leaves you feeling light, clear, and present in your body and mind. It’s a bit like taking your car in for a wheel alignment, everything works a bit more smoothly, your mind and body are more responsive and alert. Many clients have reported improved memory, sleep, and mental acuity in the days after their tantric massage sessions. Perhaps it’s the increase in relaxation, or perhaps the extra intense climax acts like a reset button for your system. It seems too good to be true that an experience as pleasurable and exciting as a tantric massage could also give you the gift of better sleep, better memory and general clarity. But that’s the beauty of tantric massage, it is a Pandora’s box of good things. All you have to do is open it.

The benefits of tantric massage

A tantric massage can clear out the cobwebs of your mind but it can also help your body in numerous ways.  Obviously a massage feels good and rubbing down of any kind helps combat aches and pains but tantric massage takes your healing a little bit deeper. Beyond the mental clarity and emotional buoyancy, tantric massage is also great for your heart, your circulation, and can be beneficial for clients with sexual dysfunction and erectile issues. From a circulatory point of view massage can help erections by increasing and encouraging blood flow. Tantric massage also stimulates the libido. You may find that you are more randy than usual for several days after your appointment. This might be counterintuitive especially if you have a triumphant climax within your session, but it is the explosiveness of that experience that will fuel your appetite for days to come.

What you can expect from your tantric massage

At Secret Tantric we do mostly in-call massage, meaning that you travel to your masseuse not the other way around. Each of our masseuses works out of her well-appointed and completely private five star London flat. This means that there is no dodgy back alley to walk down. And no flashing neon sign to betray your whereabouts! All of our masseuses are located within walking distance of their local Tube Station. They are all easy to get to in short order from anywhere in town. When you arrive, you will have a brief consultation discussing your wants, needs desires and limits. Then you will  pay your masseuse directly and have a brief shower before your session begins.  When your session is complete you are welcome to have a second shower before you  say thank you and goodbye, leaving her to get on with her day.

A beautiful masseuse makes all the difference

We are well aware that a significant part of the interest in tantric massage is fantasy fulfilment. Many of our clients enjoy the numerous mental, emotional and physical benefits of tantric massage.  All of them are also there to spend their time with a beautiful woman. As you’ll see from the Secret Tantric website, our masseuses are particularly stunning. If you have had a session, you know that what you see is really what you get. Many massage agencies use a bait and switch technique to lure clients in with falsified images of their masseuses. Then the client is stuck with a subpar masseuse that does not meet the fantasy expectations they had. Not only is this disingenuous, it is unfair to the client.

Variety is the spice of life

Variety is the spice of life, and we believe that wholeheartedly when it comes to our roster of beautiful masseuses.  Our masseuses are in their 20s and 30s each one is fit and classically beautiful. Each one is a unique flower in our tantric garden but they all bloom brightly. Whether your tastes lean towards fair-haired beauties or more darkly seductive features, we have something that will appeal to everyone. We only work with the best and the most beautiful masseuses in the UK. Regardless of their job history and experience, they are well-trained in all of our quality focus areas.  We want our clients to have a consistent  yet unique experience from masseuse to masseuse. 

Try it, you’ll love it

A tantric massage is a truly unique and uplifting massage experience, if you have entrusted your massage to proper experts. Here at Secret Tantric every one of our tantric goddesses is fully trained. She is ready to take your feelings from drab to fab. Put the spring back in your step that you so desperately need. See us for general aches and pains, a bit of companionship, or for the titillating erotic experience of a lifetime. You will not be disappointed. Don’t delay if you are considering giving us a call, all of our masseuses are popular and in high demand. Book yourself a session today to avoid disappointment as their calendars are chock-a-block every single week!

What are you waiting for?

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Whether you are looking for a lingam massage or sensual full body tantric massage, we have what you want. Our girls are the most beautiful in London, if not the world! We are absolutely confident that every session you booked with us will be better than the last. No matter your reasons for booking with us, we will always leave you satisfied, to whatever degree you desire.

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