An erotic massage is a special kind of yummy: it’s a treat for the mind and the body and it leaves you feeling so good. But if you have never had one you may be a bit unsure of how to get the most out of your erotic massage experience. Luckily there’s not a lot you have to do to prepare, but there are a few details worth considering if you really want to reap the benefits.  

When working with a professional service like Secret Tantric you know the experience will be professional from beginning to end. When you first call in about your appointment you will have all of your questions answered and your needs will be accommodated as soon as is effectively possible. 

Easing your way into an erotic massage experience should be easy and stress-free. If you’re unsure of what to expect, you may struggle to be completely open to the experience, depriving yourself of maximum pleasure and joy! There are two ways that you can approach your erotic massage: open and closed. When you embark on the experience of erotic massage it’s important to start from a good place. 

Open up to erotic massage

The positive benefits of erotic massage are multifold. There’s the physical aspect, which is the relaxation and sensual expulsion of stress and pain through touch. There’s also the incredibly intimate and intense energy between the masseuse and the client. What is required of you is an openness to experience something intimate with a stranger. We recommend that you do take some time before your first session to consider what your session may be like and why you are motivated to go through it. 

We will treat you right

If this is your first time, please note that there is nothing to be nervous about and nothing to be worried about. You will leave your erotic massage experience feeling restored, relaxed, rejuvenated and ready to take whatever life throws at you. Many clients have shared their testimonials, speaking to the positive benefits and effects of our massages. 

People seek erotic and exotic massage for numerous reasons. Many just want a fun way to feel sexy, others are on a path of personal healing that requires them to get better in touch with their bodies and their feelings. There are also subsets of clients who are looking for no strings attached touch and intimacy.  Many of our clients simply have not had intimate contact with anyone in a while making our services a practical and pleasurable way to achieve intimacy.

Screw the Taboo

There are many reasons, great reasons, to avail the services of a tantric masseuse in London, however many of those reasons are less than perfectly acceptable by society. Unfortunately we live in a place and time where having a consensual experience between two adults is still frowned upon by some. The idea of paying for time, touch and companionship is something that is still somewhat taboo, although attitudes towards erotic massage and other similar services are improving. Feel good about your choice, and know that there is nothing wrong at all, with seeking what your heart (and loins) desire. 

Did You Know? If you have explored the rest of our website you will know that our masseuses do set their own limitations on which massages they provide and how in-depth the erotic massage experience with them will be. When you are thinking about your massage session make sure that your expectations and desires are aligned with the menu of options of the masseuse that you have requested. 

What will my erotic and exotic massages be like?

A Secret Tantric massage involves a full body rub down with quality massage oils, administered by a thoroughly trained and incredibly sexy masseuse. Your masseuse will use her hands as well  as other parts of her nude or scantily clad body to conduct the massage. As you can imagine, this is a very sensual and sexual experience that is stimulating to the client both in the visual and tactile senses. 

Embrace a different kind of Self Care

It’s become a bit of a cliché but the phrase “self-care isn’t selfish” has some truth to it. It is a mantra for anyone living and working in the 21st century. We are in greater need than ever for intimacy, closeness, feelings of trust and safety. We encourage you to take a little bit of time to think about how important it is to take care of your body, your mind and your soul. You probably work very hard and have many responsibilities and are constantly fighting the balance between what you need and what those around you need. One way that you can achieve better balance and an overall sense of well-being is by attending to those three parts of your life. Not only do we provide a VIP experience that is luxurious, attentive, and exhilarating, we also cater to the intellectual, emotional and soul-serving side of massage. 

They say a change is as good as a rest

Erotic massage does invoke a state of relaxation, however it does take a certain amount of energy to get there. Consider trying to get a longer or more sound sleep the night before. When you are well rested your head is clear, and your thoughts move more freely. Likewise, your emotions are more in control. Frankly, it’s easier to have more fun. is a lot of room for laughter, conversation and experience that is fun and light-hearted. If nothing else, it will be a refreshingly new experience that will put a spring in your step. 

Prep your body

Being well hydrated and eating something light shortly before your session will help you have a more comfortable time physically.

  • Try to be well rested
  • Eat a light lunch with both carbs and protein a couple of hours before your session
  • Stretch and drink a good amount of water so you are hydrated and your body feels adequately fueled 
  • Use the facilities before your session starts so that you don’t create any interruptions
  • If prostate play is on the menu, aim to void your bowels a couple hours before your session to avoid any messy surprises

You get what you give, prepare appropriately

Our clients come to us because they feel stressed or they are under a certain amount of pressure with their regular life. It’s impossible to expect that our clients could show up completely relaxed and ready to go. Part of why you are in our skilled hands is to feel that relaxation and for you to leave the session feeling better than when you arrived. However, as mentioned at the very beginning of this article on how to get the most out of your erotic massage, you do have to take a certain amount of responsibility for the experience and see it as an investment in yourself. 

Physical and Emotional Limits are okay

Everything about your session will be discussed before things begin and before you pay. You will never be expected to do anything you’re not comfortable doing, or that is beyond your physical limits. It’s essential that you are honest with your masseuse about any injuries, ailments or medical conditions. These could make the experience more challenging for you or, in some cases, unsafe. Let your masseuse know if you have any issues with your respiratory system. Likewise, anything to do with circulation or any cardiac issues. 

We’re here for you

We are here to guide you through the experience and help you relax and feel the benefits of erotic massage. Our job is to connect with you and spend time with you. We will provide you with the sensation and intimacy that erotic massage requires. You will never be made to feel inadequate because you are not fit or have disabilities or limitations. 

Easy and stress free

As you can see, preparing for an erotic massage, both physically and emotionally, is simple. When you get an erotic massage you are investing in yourself and your own well being. Therefore, it makes sense to get all you can from the experience. We do everything we can to ensure that your experience is as luxurious and soul-satisfying as it can be. When you embrace the process and let go of any guilt or discomfort, the real happiness and healing seeps in. We want you to leave your sessions feeling more human and more whole. You should feel so pampered that you can’t wait to come back again. 

What are you waiting for?

Erotic massage is a luxury, but also an important part of your sexual health maintenance. Looking to relax? Are you touch-starved from being single? We can meet your every need.

Whether you are looking for a lingam massage or sensual full body tantric massage, we have what you want. Our girls are the most beautiful in London, if not the world! We are absolutely confident that every session you booked with us will be better than the last. No matter your reasons for booking with us, we will always leave you satisfied, to whatever degree you desire.

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