Are you excited about the prospect of a tantric massage? You should be! In this article you will learn tips and tricks on how to get the most out of your tantric massage. Read on to ensure that your expectations and your experience are cohesive.

How to get the most out of your tantric massage

Luckily, preparing for a tantric massage is not difficult. As long as you are excited and enthusiastic about the experience you’ll have a great time. When it comes to getting ready for your appointment there isn’t a lot to do.  Here are some pointers from a seasoned tantric massage expert, on how to best prepare for your session. Read on for how to get the most out of your tantric massage. 

Relax, you are in good hands

Getting a tantric massage is one of the most delicious experiences you can have. It’s unlike any other form of massage! There is less focus on muscles and the physical response of the massage . With tantric massage there is a focus on the physical sensation of the massage itself. This means a more sensual massage than one that is just about the muscles that are being affected.

Tantric massage vs traditional massage

With a traditional therapeutic massage the focus is on rehabilitation or relaxation. With tantric massage the focus is more about the whole experience and the energy exchanged between the two (or more) people involved. Tantric massage requires a certain amount of intimacy and closeness. This can seem counter-intuitive. It is definitely an experience you can have through a service like Secret Tantric. Our masseuses are incredibly skilled both in the physical and relaxation elements of massage. They also have the emotional and social skills to carry you through a session with comfort and ease.

But how?

You may be wondering how the requisite intimacy is achieved in a relatively short period of time and with a relative stranger. The short answer is you need to be prepared for the experience. You need to understand that as much as the masseuse will accommodate you and make you comfortable, you also must be prepared to open up and receive the experience, and participate in it. 

Your tantric massage will be professional, always

One of the great things about working with a professional service like Secret Tantric is that you know the experience will be professional from beginning to end.

When you first call in about your appointment you will have all of your questions answered. Your particular needs will be accommodated as well as possible, as soon as is possible. If you have explored the rest of our website you will know that our masseuses set their own limitations on which massages they provide. They also dictate how in-depth the erotic massage experience with them will be. It is essential that these boundaries be understood, respected, and upheld.

Clarify expectations

When you think about your massage session make sure that your expectations and desires are aligned. We have specifically set up our website in such a way that our clients have the girls’ information up front. You can make decisions on who you see, and for what. This means that at different times, for different sessions, you may need to see different girls. Not everyone has the skill set for every type of massage, nor does everyone participate in all the forms of massage that Secret Tantric offers.

Be present and open to new things

There are two ways that you can approach your tantric massage: open and closed. When you embark on the experience of tantric massage it’s important to start from a good place. What that means might be different for each person, but being open to experience is the first requisite.

If this is your first time, please note that there is nothing to be nervous about and nothing to be worried about. You will leave your tantric massage experience feeling restored, relaxed, rejuvenated and ready to take whatever life throws at you.

We come well recommended

Many clients have shared their testimonials, speaking to the positive benefits and effects of our massages. Primarily our clientele are men, however we do have female clients from time to time. Many of our masseuses will accommodate single women and couple’s massage. When your appointment is complete you will understand why so many people have said so many great things about Secret Tantric.

Reap the benefits

The positive benefits of tantric massage are multi-fold. There’s the physical aspect, which is the relaxation and sensual expulsion of stress and pain through touch. There’s also the incredibly intimate and intense energy between the masseuse and the client. This is something that doesn’t require a close relationship. Obviously she will be a stranger, or at the very least someone you’ve had a session with before once or twice.

You’ll leave happy

What is required of you is an openness to experience something intimate with a stranger. That can be something that people don’t anticipate being a central part of the experience, therefore they don’t think about it when they anticipate their appointment. In my expert opinion, I would recommend that you do take some time before your first session to consider what your session may be like and what about it excites you the most.

No explanations needed

There are many reasons, great reasons, to avail the services of a tantric masseuse in London. Sadly, many of those reasons are less than perfectly acceptable by society. Unfortunately, we live in a place and time where having a consensual experience between two adults is still frowned upon by some. The idea of paying for time, touch and companionship is something that is still somewhat taboo. The attitudes towards erotic massage and other similar services are improving. Feel good about your choice. Know that there is nothing wrong at all, with seeking what your heart (and loins) desire. 

Remember: Self care isn’t selfish

There’s a popular phrase that has been floating around for the last few years: self-care isn’t selfish. This is so true! It may sound a bit like “live, laugh, love” but it is more than a hollow hallmark of the privileged. It is a mantra for anyone living and working in the 21st century. We are in greater need than ever, for intimacy, closeness, feelings of trust and safety. Sadly, many men have a hard time expressing their emotions and letting their guard down. This can be particularly difficult with strangers. For many men that sort of intimacy is reserved for personal relationships and sexual and intimate partners. This is your time, your treat, and your massage! It’s not indulgent to take care of yourself, and you know how best to do it. 

Tantric massage: add to your self-care tool-kit

We encourage you to take a little bit of time to think about how important it is to take care of your body, your mind and your soul. You probably work very hard and have many responsibilities and are constantly fighting the balance between what you need and what those around you need. The expectations of men come from many directions, be that a partner, a family, a job, or some other major element in your life. Where are the tools in your tool kit to take good care of you? One way that you can achieve better balance and an overall sense of well-being is by attending to those three parts of your life. This is something Secret Tantric and our erotic massage experts can help you with! Not only do we provide a VIP experience that is luxurious, attentive, and exhilarating, we also cater to the intellectual, emotional and soul-serving side of massage. 

Look good, feel good, have more fun

The girls of Secret Tantric have very few expectations of their clients beyond the obvious: mutual respect and that you are willing to actively participate in the experience of tantric massage. You can certainly show up to your appointment in sweatpants and yesterday’s pizza stained shirt, and no one will say a word. However it is worth considering that in order to feel your best you must look your best.

Think of it this way. You will be spending at least an hour with an absolutely gorgeous woman who is there to spend direct and intimate time with you as well as handling your body in direct and intimate ways. Once your appointment has begun and you and your masseuse have discussed and agreed upon terms, and you have paid, there is an expectation that you will shower before the session begins. This is not an uncommon requirement by erotic massage practitioners, for obvious health reasons. It’s essential for both parties that the experience be as non-intrusive and calm as possible. When you are finished with the shower you will, figuratively and  literally, be in her hands. You won’t have to do much more beyond that for the rest of the session besides being present and having the most absolutely amazing time.

Rest up, you’ll need it

Since I’m here to tell you how to get the most out of your tantric massage it is essential that I tell you that ideally you should be well-rested before your session. This doesn’t mean that you have to have had a perfectly stress-free day or that you must have just had a nap. What it does mean is that you should consider trying to get a longer or more sound sleep the night before and not have had an incredibly physically draining day. Tantra is relaxing and does invoke a state of relaxation. however it does take a certain amount of energy to get there.

Why so much rest?

When you are well rested your head is clear, your thoughts move more freely, your emotions are more in control and, frankly, it’s easier to have more fun. And fun is a big part of the point! As much as it sounds like this needs to be a quiet, darkly exotic and erotic experience, there is a lot of room for laughter, conversation and experience that is human and real. There is no need to be anyone but yourself. 

Fuel your body to relax your mind

Being well hydrated and eating something light shortly before your session will help you have a more comfortable time physically. If you’re looking for the best tips on how to get the most out of your tantric massage, I would tell you to:

  • Be well rested
  • Have eaten a light lunch with both carbs and protein a couple of hours before your session
  • Stretch and drink a good amount of water so you are hydrated and your body feels adequately fuelled 

Sound mind and body

If this sounds more like preparing to run a marathon than going for a massage, I understand. However, these are the most ideal situations and considerations. That doesn’t mean that you have to do it all perfectly. Part of the reason that our clients come to us is because they feel stressed. They are under a certain amount of pressure with their regular life, career, family, etc. It’s impossible to expect that our clients could show up completely relaxed and ready to go. Part of why you are in our skilled hands is to feel that relaxation . You must leave the session feeling better than when you arrived. That’s always the goal. When it comes to how to get the most out of your tantric massage, you do have to take a certain amount of responsibility for the experience and see it as an investment in yourself. 

Be honest about your limitations

Our masseuses are very good communicators and will ensure that you know what is going to happen in your session step-by-step. Everything about the session and its limits will be discussed before things begin and before you pay. You will never be expected to do anything you’re not comfortable doing. Likewise we won’t push you to anything that is beyond your physical limits. This is an important consideration and it’s essential that you are honest with your masseuse. Tell her about any injuries, long-standing ailments ,or medical conditions that will make the experience more challenging for you  Because breathing and deep breathing are an essential part of the tantric experience, please let your masseuse know if you have any issues with your respiratory system as well as anything to do with circulation or any cardiac issues. 

It’s okay to be shy

something that I have heard from many clients over the years especially men is that they were worried about how their bodies were their level of Fitness would be proceeded. Let me tell you unequivocally that our MO is not to criticize or be concerned with the shape or Fitness of your body. We absolutely don’t judge. You may not believe that but consider the fact that we are women under incredible pressure and beauty standards working in an industry where how we look is essential. We understand the pressure of being seen by a stranger and the insecurities that that can potentially bring to the surface. it is not our place to judge nor is it our wish to.

Our purpose in your tantric massage is to guide you through the experience and help you relax and feel the distressing benefits of erotic massage.

No judgement

We are not here to adjudicate your body or make discrimination against your degree of Fitness. We are here to connect with you, spend time with you, and provide you with the sensation and intimacy that tantric massage requires. You will never be made to feel inadequate or lesser than simply because you are not fit or have a disabilities or limitations. We can accommodate physical restrictions so long as you are upfront and honest with us about what will feel good for your body and what will not. We certainly do not want to aggravate old injuries or push your body into a state of physical exertion or stress that it cannot handle. The objective of your session is complete relaxation erotic touch and a sense of overall well-being. You will be well taken care of by any of our girls, and we do know that you will keep coming back time and again for more, new, and exciting erotic adventures. 

Loosen up and have fun

You can spend as much energy as you wish being ready for your tantric massage experience. In the end you will get back what you put into it. That means being open to the required intimacy and faithfully following your masseuse as she guides you through the session. Give yourself the permission to enjoy the experience and to reap the benefits of such direct and intimate touch. This is time away from your everyday life that is just for you. Men don’t take enough time away from their lives just for themselves. We, as a society are constantly telling ourselves to put other people first, not be selfish and to get by with what we have. But we all need to let our hair down!

You deserve it

Allow me to affirm for you that an erotic massage in London with one of our tantric massage experts is not excessive or indulgent. It may not be a splurge that you can make every week or even every month, and that’s okay. We understand that this is not the type of service that you use all the time. What we do know is that our clients always come back. They are wonderful people who entrust us with their bodies, their vulnerability and sensitivity. We work very hard to ensure that the experience is everything you want it to be. 

Final thoughts

Now that you know how to get the most out of your tantric massage, you’re ready to book! If you haven’t already booked with us now is the time! The process couldn’t be simpler. Have a look through our masseuse page to see all of the beautiful girls. Learn more about each of them and which services are available. We make the process of setting up your appointment seamless and simple to do. Just give us a call on the number below to book your Secret Tantric massage in London, today!


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