Have you ever wondered what it would be like to be a London erotic massage therapist? We asked a number of our masseuses to give us the inside scoop on what a typical day looks like for them. You may be surprised by the daily life of a London erotic massage therapist and how interesting it can be. Whether you are an existing client, a future client or you’re considering working in this industry, this article will enlighten you to the trials and tribulations of being a London erotic massage therapist.
Secret Tantric is the ultimate source for erotic massage. We are London’s VIP tantric massage agency and we are highly regarded for a reason. We believe that a happy masseuse means a happy client. Therefore, here at Secret Tantric we appreciate the importance of our masseuses feeling safe, empowered, and independent. We seek out to the best and the brightest London erotic massage therapists that we can find, and we only work with industry leaders like ourselves. When it comes to the daily life of a London erotic massage therapist, there is a lot of variety, but a few things remain true across the board: all of our girls are beautiful, incredibly fit, and enjoy a rich social life. Balancing work and life can be hard at the best of times, and is all the more challenging with a highly personal job that you do from home.
Timing is Everything
Most of our clients utilise our services in the afternoons and evenings. Weekdays are very common, but weekends are even more prominent. This is a good consideration if you are booking an appointment with us, especially if you’re looking for time with a specific girl. Mornings and midday are often available, however, many of our masseuses are working on themselves during these hours so they can give their best to you. More often than not, you can book within an hour or two with most of our girls. This means that their schedules must remain flexible and responsive. We also know that they need time to themselves and down time to have a fulfilling life of their own. Therefore, we let our masseuses set their own hours so that their time is used effectively.
If you’ve ever wondered why your favourite masseuse was unavailable for a booking, she may have been with another client, or she may have been pursuing some of her own dreams. Our masseuses come from all walks of life, and are each at different points in their lives. Some of them are students, and their day requires time for study. Others travel extensively and can be hard to pin down when they’re not at home in London. Others have wide open schedules and can accommodate almost anytime or location in London! We encourage our masseuses to find a good balance between the work that they do and the life that they want. One thing that our masseuses always are is busy!
They are always working out
Most of our masseuses focus on in-calls, meaning that they work from home and you go to them. All of them work from luxurious five-star flats, many of which have great amenities in the building. This seems to work out well because these girls are always at the gym! If they aren’t at the gym they’re doing yoga, Pilates, meditation, or other fitness pursuits to stay in perfect shape. Most of our masseuses have been blessed with exceptionally good genes and natural beauty. Not many of them need to work so hard at the gym but because erotic tantric massage is a physically taxing job, they do like to stay in shape. Staying healthy and fit is essential during the pandemic and beyond. Our clients are confident that our masseuses are in good health, and maintain the cleanliness and hygiene of their apartments for their clients.
Breakfast is still the most important meal of the day
Many of our masseuses use the mornings to fuel and care for their bodies. They eat well and workout and take care of personal errands early in the day. This frees them up for afternoon and evening appointments. Tantric massage can be emotionally and physically exhausting, so starting their day with a balanced diet and appropriate exercise is a common strategy. We all know that breakfast is the most important meal of the day, but the more physically demanding and energetic your job, the more important that becomes. When talking to our masseuses about the the daily life of a London erotic massage therapist, almost all of them mentioned the importance of a good breakfast. Just goes to show you that as exotic and elite as they seem, they’re still people just like you and me.
Variety is the spice of life
All of our masseuses perform multiple forms of erotic massage. They all provide sensual and tantric massage, but many have more tricks up their sleeve. By ensuring that our masseuses are able to give many kinds of massages, we ensure that our clients get exactly what they’re looking for. We also know that variety is important to our masseuses, and that they would be bored stiff if they only did one sort of massage. Therefore, we encourage our masseuses to continuously up-skill and learn more forms of massage. We do a lot of in-house teaching, both for our masseuses and for the public, often led by some of the biggest names in London erotic massage. Our masseuses have expressed a lot of positive feedback regarding the variety of massage that Secret Tantric provides.
It’s all about the client
When our masseuses meet with a new client for the first time, they are briefed beforehand by our massage coordinator who takes the bookings. By the time you arrive on your masseuse’s doorstep, she has already learned everything there is for her to know from when you called in. She knows what to expect, she knows from your requests what to suggest and offer, and she has a good idea of how the appointment will go. The objective of our masseuses is to provide a world-class erotic massage in a luxurious and comfortable environment. Our massages are as much about relaxation and restoration as they are about arousal and titillation. We want you to have exactly what you’re looking for, and so do our masseuses. This is why it is essential to be clear, honest and thorough when booking your appointment.
Consultation for clarity and communication
When asked what their favourite part of an erotic massage appointment is, many of our girls mentioned the initial meeting and consultation. Your masseuse will take you through a full introduction and consultation upon arrival. You will be met with a warm smile and invited in, your comfort will be top priority. Then you two will get down to the business of talking about why you’re there. There’s no need to be coy. In fact, our masseuses have mentioned that the more clear the client is the better the massage will ultimately be.
Comfort and consent
Secret Tantric is London’s erotic massage destination, and we are a fully legitimate and above board agency. This is not a rinky-dink operation and our masseuses will always operate from a position of comfort, respect and consent regarding clients. Therefore, it is no surprise that we expect the same of our clients. Part of managing client expectations is setting boundaries and sticking to them. Your desires will always be considered and your consent will always be honoured, but our masseuses need you to know that they require the same respect as well. During your initial consultation at the beginning of your appointment, you and your masseuse can establish what is and is not acceptable in your massage. From both of your points of view. We have a zero-tolerance policy on assault and inappropriate talk and/or touching. Our girls love what they do, and they are very good at it, but they are still people. We expect you to be a perfect gentleman.
Taking time between clients
One thing that is often overlooked by our clients is the down time between appointments that our masseuses sometimes need. Speaking to our masseuses, we have established that they do better and are more engaged when they have adequate breathing room between clients. This time can be for running an errand, grabbing a quick shower, having a meal, etc. Working out the schedules with our clients and our masseuses is an important part of the booking process. Ensuring that our masseuses have a busy but comfortable schedule is ideal. Because the length of the massage is dictated by the client’s wishes and the masseuse’s availability, some appointments can last all day or all night. Some of our masseuses who provide the ‘girlfriend experience’ or are travel companions, end up spending a lot of time with our clients.
Candles and towels and oils, oh my!
A London erotic massage from Secret Tantric would not be complete without the full VIP experience. Our masseuses manage the set up, take down, and clean up from every appointment. Part of what makes a Secret Tantric erotic massage so good is the quality of materials and atmosphere that our masseuses create. Depending on the massage and the client, our girls can spend easily 20 minutes before and after each appointment setting up and tidying up the high quality oils, hot towels, scented candles that they use. When you arrive for your massage and the space is inviting and arousing to your senses, that didn’t happen all on its own! Masseuses are responsible for creating the appropriate atmosphere for a relaxing erotic massage. This is a part of the job that often goes unnoticed, so if you appreciate the ambience she’s created for you, do make sure that you compliment her on it.
Only a phone call away
When talking with our masseuses about the daily life of a London erotic massage therapist, one topic that came up more than once was the check-in process. All of our masseuses check in with Secret Tantric headquarters several times a day. Not only are they connected with the head office regarding their upcoming appointment, they also call to check in after every appointment. This ensures that we know that our masseuses are safe and accounted for at all times. Although the vast majority of our clients are absolutely exceptional and trustworthy, we feel we can never be too careful. Sadly, jobs like erotic massage come with certain risks, risks that we aim to mitigate through our stringent processes. It may sound like a bother to connect with head office multiple times a day, but our masseuses are happy to do so, because they know that we have their best interests in mind. The safety and comfort of our masseuses is of particular importance to us and we see it as a responsibility worth undertaking.
Entrepreneurs at heart
At Secret Tantric we do not require exclusive contracts from our masseuses. Most of our erotic massage therapists work in other areas of the adult industry. Some are companions and party girls, others are camgirls or escorts. We do not require exclusivity because we find that offering our masseuses the ability to set their own hours, and set their own rates, works out best. We provide the massage supplies and we do the advertising. Our masseuses have a lot of autonomy, and that’s how they like it. The adult industry can be incredibly lucrative, and we see no reason to clip the wings of our masseuses by expecting exclusive contracts. We would rather that they find success through multiple channels, not just our agency.
Even if you love it it’s still a job
Much like any job, there are good days and bad days. Monday’s can seem like a challenge, Fridays can seem like relief, and there are always ups and downs. The daily life of a London erotic massage therapist is not so different from anyone else’s. We all have work to do with calls and meetings to take, and clients to consider. The masseuses at Secret Tantric are the best in London, if not the country, or the world. We are highly selective with our erotic massage therapists because we want our girls to love what they do. When asked if they love their job, each one that we talked to smiled and said that yes they did. When we asked why, they all had the same answer: the clients.
What are you waiting for?
It’s one thing to read about the sensual massage experience, to learn about the process and all of the details, but it is something else entirely to have your own. There’s no reason to hesitate, simply pick up the phone and give us a ring and we will have you set up for the time of your life within minutes . Whether you seek deep tissue relaxation or a slippery sexy happy ending massage, Secret Tantric has what you need. And we know how to give it to you! Call us today to set up your appointment. You will not regret it!
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